Who you really are.

The biggest questions I've had lately: Why do people not really show who they are. Why is it that people can be so two faced? You provide yourself a reputation to this one person, but a different to the next... but which is the real you? Are you lost at finding yourself and who you truly are, or are you discontent with who you have become? But for such a person, if they create for themselves an insulting nature, should you pity them for being unable to find out who they are and their potentials? It's not that I look down on people who think they should act differently around different people. In fact, I'd say that acting one way in a professional setting and another in a casual setting is a pretty generic thing. You see it happen lots where people show two sides that are both them, the fun loving, and the serious. Yet when it comes to people being inconsiderate and insulting versus caring and flirting, you can't help but consider, are they both sides of you, or which one is fake? To me, there is a limit to being too different in your personalities. Perhaps it's the point when other people get hurt that you measure it by, or perhaps you don't even measure it at all. After observing a few people that I've realized struggle with the problem of being true to their own nature, I've come up with this:

Some people really just don't know how to present themselves in society. Society provides an individual with a reputation based on single moments and actions, but along with the reputation comes social responsibility. Perhaps the coping factor of dealing with an unrealistic responsibility is to become two-faced, being neither 100% the given reputation, or not. They are able to show multiple personalities, which gives them a chance to explore their true natures before wishing to pursue a true reputation. Scientists have once said that till the mid 20's, one doesn't have a complete picture of who they are in life, and where they stand. But when it comes to such a matter, is it societies fault for creating false reputations, or is it a person's fault for implying false reputation. In ways it's both, in ways it's neither. The shallowness of society leads to the incapability for a person to really show who they are. As for the person them self, they are at fault for constantly changing personalities, without a consistency that people can rely on. It is important to find one's true self, and it does take time. But in the sense of finding one's true self, there should be some form of consistency, or else it results in false reputations and confusions. 

False reputations can hurt people who believe in them. Perhaps it's too naive to say that, and perhaps it's naive for the people to believe in such things. But we are human after all, and none of us are perfect. Here is a song that I've listened to lately. It's an older song, but for those who have hurt others, maybe you'll now what their thinking of. 

Because of You. Kelly Clarkson

Music is for healing! <3

Till Later
JLogging it ~ Jo Lee

P.S I'm sorry for the poor grammar, as well as potential insults I may have indirectly fired at you. Feel free to leave any comments below like previous years :)